Feb 05, Krishna rated it it was ok?? Many theories are explored based on a silghtly anthropological perspective, taking into consideration some historical background for those ideas. As opposed to what the traditional views of the Bible taught us about respecting and honoring our family, modernity came with the rebellious individuation of the person and therefore, people are unawarily cut from the family inheritance, while still being linked on a more unconscious level. Moreover, the counter-culture advocates for a type of adolescent rebellion which can also be observed in the modern psychology that analyses the abuse and neglect of children as a means of forgetting our past without taking into account that genetics reveals a lot of resemblance with our ancestors. The books goes on by telling that avoiding the roots of our being could lead to a kind of unconscious culpability and punishment.
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Todo esto son cosas que uno esconde, heridas secretas que uno no quiere mostrar. My ancestors hurt me Why do we repeat what our parents or our ancestors lived through? Repeating the actions, dates or ages that have formed the family novel of our successor line is a way to stay faithful to our parents, grandparents and other ancestors, a way to follow the family tradition and live according to it.
Or, in the case of women from the same family, to marry at eighteen and have three children, all girls or all boys. Sometimes, this invisible loyalty exceeds the limits of the credible and yet repeats itself. He died in the middle of a shoot because unfortunately someone forgot a bullet in a gun that had to be unloaded. Now, just twenty years before this crash, his father, the famous Bruce Lee, died of a brain hemorrhage in full shoot of a scene where if character allegedly died of a shot fired with a revolver that was not supposed to be loaded.
We literally keep a powerful and unconscious faithfulness to our family history and we are very afraid to invent something new in life. In some families, we see anniversary syndrome repeated, in the form of diseases, deaths, natural abortions or accidents, for three, four, five, and up to eight generations! However, there is a darker reason why we repeat the diseases and accidents of our ancestors. If you take a family tree and the accidents of our ancestors. Now, what happens when, out of shame, convenience or protecting our children or our family, we do not talk about incest, suspicious death or failures?
Silence around the alcoholic uncle will create a shadow zone in the memory of a son of the family who, to fill the void and lagoons, will repeat in his body or in his life the drama they have tried to hide from him. But, that repeat implies that the boy must know something about the family shame and he must have heard about the wretched guy, right?
Of course not! Talking is not necessary to communicate; studies on non-verbal communication and body language show that human beings communicate through language but also with the body, gestures, tone of voice, breathing, attitude, the style of dress, the silences, the evasion of certain topics Shame, like secret, does not need to be evoked to pass from generation to generation and come to disrupt a link of the family, a direct or indirect link, or someone indirectly related to the family or acting out of family loyalty, by ID.
Could it be avoided? Can someone escape repetition and freely direct their own story? To avoid repetition, it is necessary to be aware of it If the origin of pain or disease is close to consciousness, the mere fact of visualizing the history of the coup, six or seven generations, that is to place it on the family tree, in its psycho-political-economic-economic context to the over the years and, abruptly, realizing the repetitions, may suffice to create a strong enough emotion to free the sick from the weight of unconscious family loyalties.
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Todo esto son cosas que uno esconde, heridas secretas que uno no quiere mostrar. My ancestors hurt me Why do we repeat what our parents or our ancestors lived through? Repeating the actions, dates or ages that have formed the family novel of our successor line is a way to stay faithful to our parents, grandparents and other ancestors, a way to follow the family tradition and live according to it. Or, in the case of women from the same family, to marry at eighteen and have three children, all girls or all boys.
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